Im dating a married woman
Let your friends know that you still want to go out with them regularly.
Don't always be so ready to cancel plans you have made with others to accommodate him. It allows you to see yourself through the eyes of another man who finds you interesting and attractive. It helps to remember that the man with whom you are intimately involved in "your other life" is not living as a monk with his wife.
Simply because he talks in a negative way about his marriage doesn't mean that his obligations to his wife are any less important to him. No matter how much you may want to walk in the sunshine with him and have him openly acknowledge his love for you, it won't happen. Planning to be together becomes a fascinating game and is thrilling to say the least.
Being involved in an affair with someone else's husband is an almost surefire trip from ecstatic highs at the beginning to a depressing abyss at the end.
Understand the basics of exactly what you are getting into, and what your status is.
”’ You’ll be ready to start the recovery then – and it starts with cutting her out of your life completely.
It’ll feel terrible at first, like going cold turkey, but as the love poison drains from your system, you’ll realise one day that you’re not thinking about her.
You need to step back and identify the priorities -- your priorities -- in a relationship with a married man. Ensuring you have a life distinct from his that is your safe haven can make being the other woman, if not a secure, permanent position, at least one that is a bit more tolerable.